Monday, October 02, 2006

Excuse me while I whine

I haven't posted much in the way of personal stuff lately, but I gotta vent. After a long, drawn out custody battle, I finally got my kids. But you know that. Now I get to deal with a dick of an ex and try to get child support. If I was 5 minutes late with my check to him (oh yes, I paid child support to him), he screamed from one end of the county to the other. Now that he has to pay, I haven't seen shit. AND the judge has ordered him to keep the insurance on the girls. Ex told me last week that he has to cancel it because he can't afford it. He hasn't worked in 4 years and has just lost his house. It was in foreclosure while the custody battle was going on, but I didn't learn this until about a month or so ago. He managed to sell it in time so he could get some money out of it, but now I have no idea where he will be going to live. The insurance is through his dads work (he worked for his dad for 20 years before he went off the deep end and quit working). I cannot afford insurance through work. I'm not getting child support and he wants me to shell out another $400-500 bucks a month? For something HE is supposed to provide? He wants me to get it for "just a few months" until he can get back on his feet. This guy seriously has some mental issues-I'm thinking paranoid schizophrenia-who the hell is going to hire him? And last week the fucker had the balls to tell me that we need to work together for the good of the children. Ok, keep the insurance Fuck-Stick. I CANNOT afford it. My only other option is Public Aid. And I know just how few doctors take that. The reimbursement is crap and they take forever to pay what little they do. Right now is an election year and the candidates for governor are having a pissing contest to see who can score more points with doctors. Unfortunately once the votes are counted, everything will revert back to the way it was-payments will be slower in coming. And Hubs can't add them to his insurance. Step-kids aren't covered.
I go back to court this Thursday for child support issues. Fuck Stick was supposed to have a disclosure statement ready last month and the judge had to reschedule the case to give F.S. time to get it done. I bet its not done this month either. I'm hoping the judge makes the little dick pay my legal costs if that happens. HE doesn't have an attorney anymore-she fired him 2 months ago (Hee), so HE isn't running up any costs, but this is costing me a fortune. And all because he's dicking around.

Thanks for listening. Any positive energies will be most welcome. And a winning lottery ticket would be appreciated too.
Manic Witch wove her spell:: 10/02/2006 10:15:00 PM ::
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